Cannabis has long been linked to deeper relaxation and stronger body awareness, but it’s also gaining traction as a way to support better sex. Whether you’re looking to ease anxiety, improve touch sensitivity, or simply feel more connected, cannabis can play a role—if you choose the right strain. At Torches NYC, we hear this question often: What should I try if I want to feel more in the mood?
The answer isn’t about one magical strain. It’s about understanding terpenes—those natural compounds in cannabis that shape its aroma and effects. Some may support calm and comfort, others may support energy or euphoria. The key is finding a strain that works with your body, your mood, and the type of connection you’re aiming for.
How Terpenes Impact Intimacy
Cannabis affects everyone differently, but when it comes to intimacy, terpenes often have more impact than people realize. THC and CBD provide the foundation, but terpenes fine-tune the experience—pushing it toward either relaxation, stimulation, or full-body comfort.
When shopping for cannabis to support your sex life, look beyond Sativa vs. Indica. Think about what you want to feel: relaxed, playful, sensual, or fully in tune with your body. That’s where terpenes like limonene, linalool, and myrcene come in.
Limonene: For Mood and Motivation
Citrusy, bright, and often found in strains that bring a light, euphoric lift—limonene is a terpene that supports mood and energy. If you’re looking to get out of your head and into your body, this is a good place to start.
Try from Torches NYC:
- Heavy Hitters | Rainbow Sherbet | AIO Vape – At 90% THC, this hybrid vape delivers a burst of citrus and a euphoric wave that many find ideal for intimacy.
- Sherbet Cartridge | ROVE Classics | 1g – This full-gram cartridge leans into sweetness and balance, offering a clean, steady high with a limonene-forward profile.
- Flav Duo | Butterscotch Biscotti & Sunset Sherbet | 2-in-1 Flower Pack – A two-strain option perfect for switching up your mood across the night.
Limonene-rich strains can help lift anxiety and set the stage for a more open, confident experience—ideal for when nerves or distraction get in the way.
Linalool: For Calm and Closeness
Sometimes, intimacy suffers not from a lack of energy, but from too much mental noise. Linalool, also found in lavender, has a quieting effect that can help ease tension and bring a sense of calm.
Try from Torches NYC:
- Electraleaf | GG4 | Flower – A classic indica with earthy depth. Linalool and caryophyllene bring a soothing quality without dulling the senses.
- Sunset Serenade | Live Rosin | 0.5g – This half-gram live rosin offers a gentle descent into relaxation, perfect for slow, sensual evenings.
For those who need to feel emotionally safe and physically relaxed before intimacy, linalool-heavy products can bring both body and mind into sync.
Myrcene: For Full-Body Relaxation
Comfort matters. Whether you’re dealing with physical tension, body pain, or simply want to feel more grounded, myrcene is a terpene worth considering. Known for its sedative properties, it’s often found in strains that encourage full-body stillness.
Try from Torches NYC:
- Aeterna | Apple Fritter | Flower – With 30% THC and dense trichomes, this strain leans heavy into body effects without clouding the head.
- 1937 | Sugar Breath | Flower – At 30.4% THC, this flower has a strong presence and is known for melting away tension.
- Melo | Garden Grape | Flower – Fruity, potent, and deeply relaxing, this strain is designed for long evenings where comfort is the goal.
Myrcene may support muscle relief, comfort during intercourse, and extended physical connection. For anyone who feels strain or tightness in intimate settings, it can be the missing link.
Well-Rounded Hybrids for Connection
Sometimes you want the lift without the overstimulation, or the calm without the couchlock. These hybrids offer balanced effects for a wide range of intimate scenarios.
Try from Torches NYC:
- Sherbet Cartridge | ROVE Classics | 1g – Worth repeating, this hybrid is well-balanced and can work for both early-evening energy and end-of-night relaxation.
- Flav Duo | Butterscotch Biscotti & Sunset Sherbet | 2-in-1 Pack – This combo lets you lean one way or the other depending on your needs. A smart pick for couples with different preferences.
Hybrids like these can help you stay in the moment—present, grounded, and ready—without pulling you too far in either direction.
Tips for Using Cannabis in the Bedroom
Getting the effects you want doesn’t happen by accident. It takes a little planning, some communication, and the right product. Here are a few ways to make the experience smoother:
- Start small – A puff or two of a high-THC product can go a long way. Don’t assume more will feel better.
- Test in advance – The middle of an intimate moment is not the best time to figure out dosage or effect. Try the product beforehand, solo or with your partner.
- Set the tone – Lighting, music, and setting make a difference. Cannabis can amplify the senses—so make sure the environment supports the experience you want.
- Talk openly – Whether you’re new to cannabis or seasoned, sharing what you feel can bring you and your partner closer.
Final Thought
Cannabis can play a meaningful role in supporting intimacy, but the experience depends on finding a product that fits your mood, goals, and comfort level. Terpenes like limonene, linalool, and myrcene shape the experience in powerful ways—beyond just THC content.
At Torches NYC, we stock flower, vapes, and concentrates from trusted brands that suit a range of needs. Whether you’re looking to relax, energize, or soften physical discomfort, we can help you find a product that fits. Stop by our Midtown Manhattan dispensary at 12 E 42nd Street or place an order for same-day delivery throughout New York City.
If you’ve never shopped for intimacy-focused cannabis before, our team can walk you through your options. No pressure, no sales pitch—just thoughtful recommendations based on what you want to feel.